https://betweenyounme.nl Between You and Me Wed, 13 May 2026 20:21:37 +0000 https://betweenyounme.nl en https://betweenyounme.nl/In-situ-in-actu-1 Tue, 12 May 2026 15:25:06 +0000 Between You and Me https://betweenyounme.nl/In-situ-in-actu-1 <img width="1600" height="1200" width_o="1600" height_o="1200" data-src="https://freight.cargo.site/t/original/i/818da04442a00afe20fbaa3b496f44f5c96053947b50069b49ea2d44c034fa7f/In-situ-in-actu_campus-novel.JPG" data-mid="248207066" border="0" src="https://freight.cargo.site/w/1000/i/818da04442a00afe20fbaa3b496f44f5c96053947b50069b49ea2d44c034fa7f/In-situ-in-actu_campus-novel.JPG" />Location: Athens, GreeceDate: 19 June 2020 In situ-in actu This is a package of strawberries from the very last visit at the local street market on April 2, 2020. The package has been used as a mold for a plaster model. The new object/structure/form retraces ethics of habitual documentary, materialism, monumentality and domestic performativity.You might also like Garden and Bread https://betweenyounme.nl/Grey-hair Wed, 13 May 2026 20:21:37 +0000 Between You and Me https://betweenyounme.nl/Grey-hair <img width="153" height="310" width_o="153" height_o="310" data-src="https://freight.cargo.site/t/original/i/b226568c5283e0cf59ca9678c20b8d2900316486bbb7c97746c44f577ccbccc0/Grey-hair_2-kopie.jpg" data-mid="248277287" border="0" src="https://freight.cargo.site/w/153/i/b226568c5283e0cf59ca9678c20b8d2900316486bbb7c97746c44f577ccbccc0/Grey-hair_2-kopie.jpg" /> Location: Regensdorf, SwitzerlandDate: 10 May 2020 Grey hair I stopped dyeing my hair recently. At first, it was because salons were closed, and my routines disappeared. But I think I want to keep going. It feels almost like breaking an addiction. I don’t miss the chemical smell lingering on my pillow at night, but I feel exposed watching the grey come in. Everyone seems more vulnerable somehow, more aware of time and mortality. Letting my hair go grey feels like surrendering to that reality instead of trying to cover it up. You might also like Rubber gloves and My notes https://betweenyounme.nl/Door Mon, 15 Jun 2020 12:42:07 +0000 Between You and Me https://betweenyounme.nl/Door <img width="2608" height="4632" width_o="2608" height_o="4632" data-src="https://freight.cargo.site/t/original/i/cd80b83be99627325c25350d8c3d72dae186b114226aacf949512c9b26fd668d/Door.jpg" data-mid="74604853" border="0" src="https://freight.cargo.site/w/1000/i/cd80b83be99627325c25350d8c3d72dae186b114226aacf949512c9b26fd668d/Door.jpg" />Location: Yogyakarta, IndonesiaDate: 6 June 2020 Door Since the pandemic, I have more appreciation for my door. This (mostly) wooden panel that separates rooms has a important role for me now. I rent part of a house in Kasongan village, Yogyakarta. The other part of the house is rented by a small family with 3 kids, who all need to stay inside the house during the pandemic. This makes the house much more crowded. Sometimes the sound they make is unbearable. Since then I really started to pay attention to the locked door that separates my area and the noisy neighbors area. I learned how the door can reduce sound and now I have more insight into how much a door prevents unwanted sounds and how to make your room more soundproof. You might also like Bread and Silence https://betweenyounme.nl/Silence Thu, 28 May 2020 18:05:57 +0000 Between You and Me https://betweenyounme.nl/Silence <img width="1800" height="2664" width_o="1800" height_o="2664" data-src="https://freight.cargo.site/t/original/i/b47dda564121068b40036f719542bae9eff227d95604a4bf36822d7955650bad/Silence.jpg" data-mid="72786910" border="0" src="https://freight.cargo.site/w/1000/i/b47dda564121068b40036f719542bae9eff227d95604a4bf36822d7955650bad/Silence.jpg" />Location: Paris, FranceDate: 27 May 2020 <img width="1960" height="2520" width_o="1960" height_o="2520" data-src="https://freight.cargo.site/t/original/i/cbbee3876ff7ea0d6bfdf78082ba869fc830b705b06ca3e4310d336c051b1670/20200322_144036.jpg" data-mid="72794723" border="0" src="https://freight.cargo.site/w/1000/i/cbbee3876ff7ea0d6bfdf78082ba869fc830b705b06ca3e4310d336c051b1670/20200322_144036.jpg" /> <img width="1880" height="2608" width_o="1880" height_o="2608" data-src="https://freight.cargo.site/t/original/i/59fb8b0ea29528a2a2801c0d78e594cd75a4d0026c0fbfa615b56a02dd459b31/20200322_142353.jpg" data-mid="72794751" border="0" src="https://freight.cargo.site/w/1000/i/59fb8b0ea29528a2a2801c0d78e594cd75a4d0026c0fbfa615b56a02dd459b31/20200322_142353.jpg" /> SilenceI already miss the silence of the city; it will become a memory.It was quite nostalgic, the silence was good. You might also like View and Garden https://betweenyounme.nl/View Tue, 26 May 2020 19:57:38 +0000 Between You and Me https://betweenyounme.nl/View <img width="3884" height="2661" width_o="3884" height_o="2661" data-src="https://freight.cargo.site/t/original/i/cbc03e4dd3aad80fc94708bf991776c6cd714d0e99a98c2a5e7b938739141fda/Apartment-view_1.jpg" data-mid="72536050" border="0" src="https://freight.cargo.site/w/1000/i/cbc03e4dd3aad80fc94708bf991776c6cd714d0e99a98c2a5e7b938739141fda/Apartment-view_1.jpg" />Location: Rotterdam, NetherlandsDate: 26 May 2020 <img width="3973" height="2625" width_o="3973" height_o="2625" data-src="https://freight.cargo.site/t/original/i/6fdbbda91f81d9373c6422f250610813e8246cfbbedaaf315acfcc5887afbd23/Apartment-view_2.jpg" data-mid="72536069" border="0" src="https://freight.cargo.site/w/1000/i/6fdbbda91f81d9373c6422f250610813e8246cfbbedaaf315acfcc5887afbd23/Apartment-view_2.jpg" /> View The thing that changed the most for me was the view from my apartment. It was something I didn't appreciate at all and actually found it depressing. Over the spring everything bloomed and now I find it both comforting and entertaining (birds and neighbour watching). I especially love the big poplar tree and watching the&nbsp;moon. You might also like&nbsp; Envelope and&nbsp;Silence https://betweenyounme.nl/Rubber-gloves Tue, 26 May 2020 19:52:14 +0000 Between You and Me https://betweenyounme.nl/Rubber-gloves <img width="640" height="852" width_o="640" height_o="852" data-src="https://freight.cargo.site/t/original/i/0b63b2fbef923dc598247dee6323a19875351f6478a33367685503ae3431e563/Rubber-gloves_1.JPG" data-mid="72535219" border="0" src="https://freight.cargo.site/w/640/i/0b63b2fbef923dc598247dee6323a19875351f6478a33367685503ae3431e563/Rubber-gloves_1.JPG" />Location: Amsterdam, NetherlandsDate: 25 May 2020 Rubber glovesSince I have been washing my hands a lotthe last few month, my hands were gettingquite dry. I then started using these rubber gloves while doing the dishesso that at least they would not dry outeven more.&nbsp; You might also like All-purpose wipes and Blue sky https://betweenyounme.nl/Earplugs Mon, 25 May 2020 19:22:26 +0000 Between You and Me https://betweenyounme.nl/Earplugs <img width="556" height="780" width_o="556" height_o="780" data-src="https://freight.cargo.site/t/original/i/a014db0376c58c57887b1bc9f5cb845d6dbc0d2693973fa3f16e60cb965ab385/Earplugs.jpg" data-mid="72391264" border="0" src="https://freight.cargo.site/w/556/i/a014db0376c58c57887b1bc9f5cb845d6dbc0d2693973fa3f16e60cb965ab385/Earplugs.jpg" />Location: Paris, FranceDate: 25 May 2020 Earplugs These earplugs allowed me to continue talking with the people who I couldn’t meet anymore. They became my connection to them and as such, they preserved a certain form of intimacyfor me. More practically, I also had my hands free to do things I had to finish&nbsp; during some of the longer conversations. You might also like Fridge and My notes https://betweenyounme.nl/Gloves Mon, 25 May 2020 11:09:25 +0000 Between You and Me https://betweenyounme.nl/Gloves <img width="611" height="837" width_o="611" height_o="837" data-src="https://freight.cargo.site/t/original/i/786c089854037e3cab9d0be860ea2c099486fa7c469d9a3c67fe4317f0273770/Gloves.png" data-mid="72328361" border="0" src="https://freight.cargo.site/w/611/i/786c089854037e3cab9d0be860ea2c099486fa7c469d9a3c67fe4317f0273770/Gloves.png" />Location: Lieren, NetherlandsDate: 25 May 2020 GlovesI work as a courier, deliveringpackages to different companies.Luckily my job continued, I just had to start wearing gloves. We did use gloves before, but only for handling sharp objects. I’m not sure if it makes much of a difference, we put everything in the van without gloves and then only upon delivery we put the gloves on.&nbsp; You might also like Door handle and Envelope https://betweenyounme.nl/Room Mon, 25 May 2020 10:13:40 +0000 Between You and Me https://betweenyounme.nl/Room <img width="3840" height="2160" width_o="3840" height_o="2160" data-src="https://freight.cargo.site/t/original/i/5fca6ef3be5b80111c1d13ed3d7076c5ecadfaedff2bc15b851b95fcd4eb5d64/Room.JPG" data-mid="72324098" border="0" src="https://freight.cargo.site/w/1000/i/5fca6ef3be5b80111c1d13ed3d7076c5ecadfaedff2bc15b851b95fcd4eb5d64/Room.JPG" />Location: Yogyakarta, IndonesiaDate: 25 May 2020 Room I live in a room, in a boarding house. Not luxurious, but quite cheap and comfortable as a place to rest after work. Sorry if my room looks messy. I usually use this room to rest or just enjoy entertainment like watching movies or playing guitar, or just doing other personal activities. But since people do the 'work from home' thing, this room (more often) has become a place to work. Maybe some people are used to working at home. However mine is not a real house, but a room, literally a 3x3 meter room with one toilet. Since this big change has happened in our global society lately, my room has been a manifestation of the fusion between public and private space. That fusion does not only occur in social media, but actually in physical space. But still, there is a situation that does not change even though the context may be different, such as one phrase in the title of Sherry Turkle's book, "alone together". You might also like Child and Silence https://betweenyounme.nl/Fridge Sun, 24 May 2020 16:16:50 +0000 Between You and Me https://betweenyounme.nl/Fridge <img width="2681" height="3758" width_o="2681" height_o="3758" data-src="https://freight.cargo.site/t/original/i/6501923166f16286b6bc794bcb167f6da08963870a204f89670b0af321929147/Fridge.jpeg" data-mid="72239344" border="0" src="https://freight.cargo.site/w/1000/i/6501923166f16286b6bc794bcb167f6da08963870a204f89670b0af321929147/Fridge.jpeg" />Location: Paris, FranceDate: 13 May 2020 Fridge Usually my fridge is empty, because I eat at work for lunch and in the evening I just get what I feel like eating that day. I never plan for the days after. But since we were only allowed to go out for essential things the past few months, I bought groceries for four or five days ahead. Desserts, cheese, vegetables, and beer of course. So I finally filled my fridge. You might also like Silence and Earplugs